I’m not entirely sure why, but as I entered the party I had Taylor Swift’s song “All Too Well” in my head. Considering I had never been to this location or one of these events and I wasn’t arriving with anyone, the lyrics had no relationship to what I was actually doing; attending a members-only intimate party via an anonymous erotica club. Not quite a sex party, although that was certainly available to anyone interested in partaking. It was more of a hyper-flirtatious gathering for adults; consenting, eager adults.
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On Being ‘Game’: What Happens When Sex Positivity Feels Like Pressure
‘It is just as objectionable to insist that everyone should be non-monogamous or kinky, as to believe that everyone should be heterosexual, married, or vanilla.’ Read more
Why I’ve Turned To Kink, Therapy, And Gaming To Heal From Trauma
For veterans, watching 15 minutes of a combat movie created an amount of analgesia that was equivalent to an injection of 8 milligrams of morphine. Read more
No Erotic Act Is Inherently Nonviolent
It’s not about gentleness — it’s about consent. Read more
The Kinky Power Of Cold Hard Cash
The latest from Tina Horn’s sex podcast, ‘Why Are People Into That?!’ explores the online world of findomming, where cash pig submissives are treated like human ATMs. Read more
The Kinky, Sadomasochistic Pleasures Of Getting Inked
Things that are meant to last always hurt. Read more