My desire to share my skills does not come from a victim-blaming narrative that would fault someone for not successfully fighting back. Nor am I arguing that learning and practicing self-defense is some kind of imperative. If someone can run or otherwise leave a situation without having to fight, that’s great, and men still need to take responsibility for their actions. But I am interested in the radical liberation that comes from protecting ourselves, and from protecting each other. Read more
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On Fear, Predation, And Treating Men As Wild Animals
For those millions of us who have always been held to a higher standard — who have never had the privilege to unleash any “wild” tendencies — we know collectively what’s possible. Read more
Why Are We Used To Violence But Caught Off Guard By Hurt?
We’ve gotten used to violence as background hum, yet we are unprepared to recognize and live alongside people who have been hurt. Read more
Sikh Americans Prepare For Resurgence Of Anti-Islamic Violence
Sikh Americans are turning to community as they face mounting bigotry in the wake of Trump. Read more