You know what we had before Identity Politics? We had White Dudes. Read more
Thank God For Identity Politics
I Wanted To Disappear Until Carrie Fisher Showed Me A Naked, Noisy Life
My stability comes from giving up substances and living my truth in the open. Read more
How My Abusive Father Helped Me Understand Trump Supporters
I know what it is like to seek the love of an abusive father-like figure. Read more
How To Throw Shade While Still Being Intersectional
You’ll live through the call-outs, but don’t come back and haunt me if you don’t. Read more
Japanese Cartoon Porn Helped Me Understand My Trans Identity
Internet perverts have argued for years over what types of futa, if any, make the consumer gay, but at 13, I had no interest in codifying the nuances. Read more
Why Are We Scared To Admit That Pregnancy And Childbirth Can Be Sensual?
Most people understand that during the act of sexual intercourse, the clitoris provides sexual pleasure. Far fewer know, or perhaps acknowledge, that this organ doesn’t shut off during pregnancy. It continues to be capable of providing that pleasure for the next nine months, including during labor and delivery. Read more
The Establishment’s Top 20 Reads Of 2016
“Our culture treats women’s bodies as if they only have worth when they are serving someone other than themselves: men’s gaze, commercialism, the concepts of sexual innocence or ‘purity’ that uphold religious ideas. When a woman’s choice comes into it, that’s when it’s a problem. Only then. That is when she is devalued.” Read more
The Media’s Unfair Focus On Trans Kids’ Moms Is Pure Misogyny
When trans kids who are assigned male at birth (AMAB) socially transition, it is most often the mom that is demonized by the press and subsequently by society. Read more
The Media’s Unfair Focus On Trans Kids’ Moms Is Pure Misogyny
When trans kids who are assigned male at birth (AMAB) socially transition, it is most often the mom that is demonized by the press and subsequently by society. Read more
What Singapore Can Teach Us About Trump’s Authoritarian America
Singapore’s lack of press freedom provides a chilling blueprint for America’s future. Read more