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Katie Tandy

Posted on April 15, 2019 April 12, 2019

The Dirty Politics Of Period Sex

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
Posted in
Brain+Body
Tagged
menstruation, periods, sex

Sometimes, a moment of revulsion is actually pure revelation. Read more

Posted on July 11, 2018 July 11, 2018

Amnesia And Other Gifts

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
Posted in
Lust+Liaisons, members-only
Tagged
love, memoir, memory, relationships, sex, trauma

My fascinating if mildly morbid research started because I couldn’t remember having sex with my ex boyfriend. It was as though someone had come in with kindergarten scissors and started sloppily snipping those memories away. Read more

Posted on February 14, 2018 October 9, 2018

The Artist Behind The Establishment’s Official Love T-Shirt Believes In The Power Of Every Body

Katie Tandy
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Katie Tandy
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Arts+Creators
Tagged
arts-creators, contests, disability, love, valentines-day

‘I’m an amputee and this image is one of the first I’ve created that addresses what being disabled is, sans able-bodied expectations.’ Read more

Posted on January 17, 2018 September 5, 2018

The Ravages Of American Poverty

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
Posted in
Arts+Creators
Tagged
poetry, Poverty, prose, writing

July Westhale’s new book of poetry, ‘Trailer Trash,’ reminds us never to be ashamed of where we come from, even if it almost kills us. Read more

Posted on December 4, 2017 December 4, 2018

‘This Too Shall Pass’ And Other Christmas Miracles

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
Posted in
Brain+Body, Society+Politics
Tagged
christmas, family, ghosts, memoir, storytelling

Christmas ghosts complicate my time. They remind me things are not linear; time is tangled, circuitous; you can travel to any point in your life and wander a while. Read more

Posted on December 1, 2017 October 9, 2018

The Remarkable Intersection Of Anal Sex And Toxic Masculinity

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
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Lust+Liaisons, members-only
Tagged
anal, lust-liaisons, sex, sex-beasts, Toxic Masculinity

‘Being penetrated is a potent symbol of vulnerability!’ I thought another man could get through to my man-friend in a way I never could. Read more

Posted on November 17, 2017 September 19, 2018

Is Love Infinite? A Polyamorous Roundtable On Jealousy

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
Posted in
Lust+Liaisons
Tagged
dating, jealousy, love, nonmongamy, polyamory, relationships

‘I’m happiest when my support networks are as wide and tribe-like as possible, and a lack of jealousy makes that easier to sustain.’ Read more

Posted on October 10, 2017 September 7, 2018

What Does Marriage Mean When You’re Gender-Fluid?

Katie Tandy
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Katie Tandy
Posted in
Uncategorized
Tagged
arts-creators, filmmaking, marriage, marriage-equality, queer

What does marriage mean when you’re gender fluid and loathe the patriarchy? Read more

Posted on September 29, 2017 October 9, 2018

The Body Sings Itself Into Oblivion

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
Posted in
Lust+Liaisons
Tagged
dying, lust-liaisons, sex, sex-beasts, Sexuality

Do not — my mind bellows at my body — become sexually inconsequential. Do not relinquish this power like a wilting flower. Read more

Posted on September 22, 2017 October 9, 2018

‘You Can Go As Far As You Like In My Great Big Oldsmobile!’

Katie Tandy
Written by
Katie Tandy
Posted in
Wit+Whimsy
Tagged
cartoon, Sexism, videos, vintage-video, wit-whimsy

In this 1932 commercial one lucky dame gets to be the Queen of a Gas Machine. (And the recipient of manifold gropings!) Read more

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