We must discuss a form of abuse that society has stigmatized for far too long. Read more
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What Responsibility Do We Have To Those Who Date Our Abusive Exes?
The shame and stigma surrounding abuse prevented me from speaking out about a former relationship. Then I got an email from the woman my ex dated after me. Read more
Protesting Trump As A Survivor Of Abuse
I recognize and respect my own limitations; I have to take care of myself in order to take care of others. Read more
How My Abusive Father Helped Me Understand Trump Supporters
I know what it is like to seek the love of an abusive father-like figure. Read more
How Abusers Rely On Shame To Keep Victims Down
It’s a problem of epidemic proportions because it has an impact on all of us. What makes it “silent” is our inability or unwillingness to talk openly about shame and explore the ways in which it affects our individual lives, our families, our communities and society. Our silence has actually forced shame underground, where it now permeates our personal and public lives in destructive and insidious ways. Read more
What My Own Abusive Relationship Taught Me About My Mother’s
I know now what it’s like to stay with someone who takes and takes and takes. Read more
Why Are You Afraid Of Love?
I tried to change, close my mouth more… At the birth of Lemonade, we awaken to images of Beyoncé alone and naked in her thoughts. All at once on a stage, in a field, in a dark room with her body contained. By this time, I am open and crying; not yet understanding everything that is Read more
Christianity Asks Us To Forgive — But I Can’t Forgive My Abuser
Christians are supposed to forgive every enemy. But does that still apply when forgiveness could cause more harm than good? Read more
Why Is Jessica Jones Important?
Five writers weigh in on the multifaceted superhero survivor—and what she means for trauma representation. Read more