For a body that had returned to episodes of violence over and over and over again, it was the first time in my adult life that I was producing something — anything — that might be restorative, and I could feel the change. Read more
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Nevada’s ‘Brothel Ban’ And The Death Of Dennis Hof, GOP State Legislature Candidate And Accused Rapist
Bizarrely — despite Hof being dead — according to Nevada law, if the deceased candidate wins an election, the office is considered vacated and must be filled by the board of county commissioners with a person of the same political party. Read more
Yes, Kavanaugh, We’re Living In ‘The Twilight Zone’
Like those on Maple Street, the men in power in Hollywood and D.C. choose to ignore the systemic issue at hand, and instead focus on preserving their own position—regardless of how it might harm their neighbors. Read more
A Girl In The Pit
I don’t think many of us would willingly and repeatedly enter a situation that typically ends in bruised ribs, mysterious cuts and scratches, dehydration, and aching feet if we weren’t at least a little self-destructive, but there is a difference between the consensual physical exhaustion of the mosh pit and having your physical being threatened or assaulted. Read more
I Went To Kavanaugh’s Alma Mater, Georgetown Prep, And It Was A Case Study In Misogyny
At all-boys’ schools, when students stand shoulder to shoulder with their classmates and hear that they are called to greatness, they also internalize the absence of women from their position of privilege and power. Women are not part of the club. They are separate. They are for conquest; they are for dating; they are for marriage. Women are not peers. Read more
I Didn’t Want To Be Aroused By My Sexual Assault, But I Was
Fear activates the sympathetic nervous system, increasing blood flow throughout the body—it’s possible that it could even facilitate genital arousal. Read more
A #MeToo Movement In Real Time
In order to move forward, we need multidimensional spaces where we can have these discussions openly, safely, and communally. Read more
The Problem With ‘Skinfolk Passes’ For Predators
Justice for sexual abuse victims is not ‘lynching.’ Read more
Why Are Secular Skeptic Communities Failing To Address Sexual Crime?
You may assume, due to their lack of church involvement and intense focus on the pursuit of truth, that skeptics wouldn’t silence #MeToo — but they are. Read more
What #MeToo Looks Like When You’re In Recovery
A woman’s treatment for addiction shouldn’t require her silence about sexual abuse. Read more