‘It is just as objectionable to insist that everyone should be non-monogamous or kinky, as to believe that everyone should be heterosexual, married, or vanilla.’ Read more
On Being ‘Game’: What Happens When Sex Positivity Feels Like Pressure
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On Finding Pride While Having Faith: A Roundtable of Queer Believers
‘I was in and out of the closet so much, people believed I’d found Narnia.’ Read more
How Queer And Trans Parents Are Raising Revolutionary Children During The Trump Era
These parents are turning this tumultuous political moment into a teachable one. Read more
Yes, We’re Giving Sperm Donors Too Much Credit
I worry that there is an overabundance of focus on sperm donation to queer parents, and not enough on the folks raising the children. Read more
No Erotic Act Is Inherently Nonviolent
It’s not about gentleness — it’s about consent. Read more
Why We Need To Talk About Queer And Trans People And Birth Control
When we talk about birth control, we need to remember that cis straight women aren’t the only stakeholders. Read more
What Does Marriage Mean When You’re Gender-Fluid?
What does marriage mean when you’re gender fluid and loathe the patriarchy? Read more
My Path To Becoming A Third Parent
We define the values that we will hold as a family. Read more
How Can The Queerest Generation (Ever) Still Believe In Gender Roles?
The gay marriage movement brought about massive cultural change, but did very little to change straight people’s perspectives on gender. Read more
How I Finally Figured Out I’m Queer In My Late Thirties
I haven’t figured out the answers to all my questions. But I hope I never reach the point where I have nothing new left to experience and, thus, run out of questions altogether. Read more