The societal reluctance to depict men as sexual objects is connected to the denial of female desire. Read more
Suzannah Weiss
The Insidious Reasons Doctors Are Botching Labiaplasties
Many doctors performing labiaplasties were never taught vulvar anatomy—leaving some patients scarred and unable to feel sexual pleasure. Read more
I Didn’t Want To Be Aroused By My Sexual Assault, But I Was
Fear activates the sympathetic nervous system, increasing blood flow throughout the body—it’s possible that it could even facilitate genital arousal. Read more
What A Fake ‘Female Orgasm’ Statistic Says About Gender Bias
For years, experts have been peddling a damaging falsehood about the time it takes for cis women to orgasm. Read more
The Problem With ‘Feminist’ Sex Products
‘If you’re making money off of the oppression of women, that doesn’t seem very feminist to me.’ Read more
When I Get Back To My Body
Unlike my initial airy-fairy mirror split, this episode didn’t feel like a mystical revelation. Read more
Ex Domme Revolutionizes Sex Toys, Stigma, And Everything Else In Between (The Sheets)
‘Working as a domme isn’t really about how to crack a whip. It‘s how to use the power you already have and put it into your everyday sexual life.’ Read more
When We Body-Shame Sexual Abusers
If we keep acting like sexual abuse is wrong because the abuser is physically unattractive, abusers deemed attractive will get away with it. Read more
To Whoever Called My Hotel Room While I Was Masturbating
A woman’s naked body is deemed a danger. Read more