We don’t need your insipid apologies, faux shock, and awe at things you’ve known about for years. Read more
Save Your Apologies: Here’s What Women Need From Men Right Now
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Is Love Infinite? A Polyamorous Roundtable On Jealousy
‘I’m happiest when my support networks are as wide and tribe-like as possible, and a lack of jealousy makes that easier to sustain.’ Read more
I Loved The Man Who Abused Me
Fear is a major factor in why women stay with abusive partners — but love can be far stronger. Read more
How To Talk To Your Latinx Family About Sexual Violence
The informal lessons that Latinx youth are sometimes taught about sex and sexual violence often rely on now disproven myths about rape. Read more
My Path To Becoming A Third Parent
We define the values that we will hold as a family. Read more
Writer Of The Week: Tina Horn
‘The dichotomy between erotica and porn is classist and fake.’ Read more
The Body Sings Itself Into Oblivion
Do not — my mind bellows at my body — become sexually inconsequential. Do not relinquish this power like a wilting flower. Read more
The Kinky Power Of Cold Hard Cash
The latest from Tina Horn’s sex podcast, ‘Why Are People Into That?!’ explores the online world of findomming, where cash pig submissives are treated like human ATMs. Read more
The Case For BDSM As A Feminist Manifesto In Art
Wonder Woman provides an (imperfect) road map for a new way of looking at BDSM in fiction. Read more
Why Are People Into Femme Dominance?!
Maybe because female dominance can manifest in workplace assertiveness, creative boldness, or community advocacy. Read more