After a serious trauma, some survivors find comfort and empowerment by creating a new identity. Read more
I Changed My Name After I Was Raped
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This Is Your Life As A Middle-Aged Stripper
You didn’t know you’d stare middle age in the face and carry its soggy weight for everyone. And yet, you don’t feel ugly or incapable. Read more
Why Are People Into Gang Bang Porn?!
Seeing a woman accept all that stimulation, all that flesh, fills me with arousing wonder. Read more
I Keep My Desire Everywhere But Out In The Open
I’d like to be more truthful; I’d like to tell you a secret. I want to fling myself into some shadowy places for a while. Read more
Don’t Judge My Estrangement From Family — It Saved My Life
When it comes to understanding the deeply personal pain of being estranged from family members, the stigma is as severe as public knowledge is shallow. Read more
How To Talk To Your White Best Friend About Racism
It’s better to have extremely difficult talks in a real friendship than to ignore the issues and pretend they don’t exist. Read more
What Responsibility Do We Have To Those Who Date Our Abusive Exes?
The shame and stigma surrounding abuse prevented me from speaking out about a former relationship. Then I got an email from the woman my ex dated after me. Read more
Questions To Ask If You Have More Privilege Than Your Partner
When I’m vastly outnumbered by straight people, white people, or people who know each other, I want my partner to leverage his privilege on my behalf. Read more
Penises Aren’t The Problem, The Patriarchy Is
If a vagina is an angry bellowing fissure…then what is a penis? Is it always a weapon? Read more
The Radical Potential Of Trans Kink Porn
We need more films that contain honest depictions of the various forms that trans women’s sexuality can take. Read more