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If It Ain’t Woke, Don’t Fuck It: The Resistance-Era Dating Test
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What Valentine’s Day Is Like When The Person You Love Is In Prison
For every sentence read out in court, there’s a family serving time for a crime that they didn’t commit. Read more
The Kinky, Sadomasochistic Pleasures Of Getting Inked
Things that are meant to last always hurt. Read more
I Promised My White Husband The Space To Fuck Up On Racism — And It Hurts Like Hell
I thought we were past this bullshit where we gave any legitimacy to the “other side” — the side that doesn’t respect my humanity. Read more
Japanese Cartoon Porn Helped Me Understand My Trans Identity
Internet perverts have argued for years over what types of futa, if any, make the consumer gay, but at 13, I had no interest in codifying the nuances. Read more
I Will Not Be Gaslighted For Speaking My Mind While Dating
I felt my inferiority complex kicking in. Read more
You Don’t Have To Go Home For The Holidays
Too often, we allow nostalgia and guilt-tripping to convince us that there is a ‘right’ day and time to be with family. Read more
I Ache For My Trans Friends Abandoned During The Holidays
We have our chosen families — but how do you mend the hole your blood relatives make when they abandon you? Read more
To Whoever Called My Hotel Room While I Was Masturbating
A woman’s naked body is deemed a danger. Read more
The Radical Healing Power Of Somatic Sexual Wholeness Therapy
“a fascinating exploration of the science behind the vastly misunderstood mind-body connection between brain and genitalia, consciousness and sexuality, the poetic and the scientific. What emerges is a revelation of how profoundly a woman’s bodily experience influences nearly every aspect of life, from stress to creativity, through the intricate machinery that links biology and beingness.” Read more