I found myself in the position I never expected to be in, echoing the words of countless women undone by the violence of the men in their lives: ‘But I still love him.’ Read more
My Feminism Couldn’t Save Me From Loving A Violent Man
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Women: Watch Out For This Ominous Sign At Your Dinner Date
In the age of #MeToo, what does it mean if he insists on ordering for you? Read more
Don’t Think About Him
It’s exhausting to remember him and even more exhausting to actively not remember. Read more
6 Perspectives On Being In A Monogamous-Polyamorous Relationship
These narratives are a snapshot, not a complete picture. But they help to provide contours to a narrative that’s too often blunted. Read more
The Fixer Upper, A Love Story
This isolated and imperfect project house embodies some kind of emotional petri dish. Read more
Why Would Anyone Ever Want To Be A Wife?
To become a wife is to become complicit. Read more
Why We Must Walk Away From Destructively Dependent Relationships
My instincts were screaming at me to move forward, but I was scared to leave. I was afraid of what he might do. Read more
No Erotic Act Is Inherently Nonviolent
It’s not about gentleness — it’s about consent. Read more
The Remarkable Intersection Of Anal Sex And Toxic Masculinity
‘Being penetrated is a potent symbol of vulnerability!’ I thought another man could get through to my man-friend in a way I never could. Read more
I Loved The Man Who Abused Me
Fear is a major factor in why women stay with abusive partners — but love can be far stronger. Read more