For years, experts have been peddling a damaging falsehood about the time it takes for cis women to orgasm. Read more
What A Fake ‘Female Orgasm’ Statistic Says About Gender Bias
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Dear Jeff, California, 35: Do You Enjoy Going Down On Your Wife?
If you need your wife to don Lorals’ ironclad, single-use, nonporous, vanilla-scented underwear to get her there, then your enthusiasm for licking is lacking, Jeff. Read more
A Brief History Of The C-Word
Our self-contempt originates in this: in knowing we are ‘cunt’. Read more
How Can We Teach Consent If We Don’t Teach About Pleasure?
Let 2018 be the year we demand more than freedom from sexual harassment and abuse. This year, it’s time we demand pleasure. Read more
Why Will People Be Into Sex Robots?
‘Sex robots combine the propensity people have to panic about technology with their propensity to panic about sex.’ Read more
Bad Advice On Judging Your Friend’s Gross Slutty Instagram Photos
Welcome to our latest Bad Advice column! Stay tuned every Tuesday for more terrible guidance based on actual letters. Read more
Recourse, redemption, and a touch of revenge.
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The Remarkable Intersection Of Anal Sex And Toxic Masculinity
‘Being penetrated is a potent symbol of vulnerability!’ I thought another man could get through to my man-friend in a way I never could. Read more
A Wide Open Letter To My Mouths: A Nonbinary Survivor Story
I use you to pleasure and protect each other, and me—this is my love letter to you, Mouths. Read more
Writer Of The Week: Tina Horn
‘The dichotomy between erotica and porn is classist and fake.’ Read more