Maybe now you have to pay $29.99 a month to find out if you match a Scorpio or a xenophobe? Read more
What I Learned On An Accidental Date With A Trump Supporter
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Amnesia And Other Gifts
My fascinating if mildly morbid research started because I couldn’t remember having sex with my ex boyfriend. It was as though someone had come in with kindergarten scissors and started sloppily snipping those memories away. Read more
I Convinced Myself I Wasn’t A Lesbian
‘I had decided that I would shut out everybody before anybody alienated me.’ Read more
On Finding Pride While Having Faith: A Roundtable of Queer Believers
‘I was in and out of the closet so much, people believed I’d found Narnia.’ Read more
My Feminism Couldn’t Save Me From Loving A Violent Man
I found myself in the position I never expected to be in, echoing the words of countless women undone by the violence of the men in their lives: ‘But I still love him.’ Read more
What A Fake ‘Female Orgasm’ Statistic Says About Gender Bias
For years, experts have been peddling a damaging falsehood about the time it takes for cis women to orgasm. Read more
Strip Club Raids Are Weapons Of Gentrification
This is not about worker safety and public welfare. This is about paving the way for politicians and the elite to gentrify cities. Read more
The Legislation That Would Harm Sex Workers—In The Name Of Their Own Protection
‘FOSTA will make our lives exponentially more dangerous under the pretense of protecting us.’ Read more
The Problem With ‘Feminist’ Sex Products
‘If you’re making money off of the oppression of women, that doesn’t seem very feminist to me.’ Read more
The Fixer Upper, A Love Story
This isolated and imperfect project house embodies some kind of emotional petri dish. Read more